my wife only calls or messages only when she has some goods coming at my office or if it's money related. we are into the 6th year of marriage and have a 4 yr old son. post covid we moved to her city ( north east) and I'm working here since then. i always feel that she only calls or messages if it's something beneficial to her. i always feel the love n care is just one-sided from my side. because of this i sometimes drink a lot and fight with her on phone...but instead of understanding why am I behaving this way,she says stop drinking